Due to ever changing privacy laws and settings, I have decided to terminate my amazon wishlist. I do still love receiving gifts, only now it requires a little bit more effort on your end, which always pleases Me. My favorite alternative is Throne, which you can find here.
Alternatively, I love those of you who put in a little bit of an extra effort, rather than just click on a link. My preferred email address to receive gifts is: consultwithv@proton.me .
I love digital gift cards from the following places:
In addition, physical gift cards from Amazon, Lyft, and Uber, can also be sent to me by simply scratching off the code on back and sending Me a picture of it.
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“The best part of beauty is that which no picture can express”
–Francis Bacon
I often get asked what My favorite activities or scenes are, and I will always come back to the same answer, “Chemistry is the most important aspect to me.” I am attracted to the connection, the chemistry which fuels the intensity of our time together. I find beauty in the vulnerability of My canvas and their open mind towards Me creating the beautiful time we have together.
I have been playing with some of My toys for well over a decade, and I truly love the opportunity to push, create, play, and turn all of you into My creation… whether that means you are a bondage bottom, a bend over b*tch, a kinky medical experiment, a degradation delight, a meaningful masochist, a teased torment… the possibilities are only limited by your imagination. It all boils down to one thing: Do you exist to serve and please Me?
I always–and only–pick scenes that excite Me, and I use that to fuel the flames in our connection. You will feel good leaving My door, no matter what that means. I domme differently, sweetly, seductively teasing and whispering in your ear… or using you in the ways you’ve only imagined. Take comfort in the fact that you have no choice, for your desperation brings a smile to My face.
Your favorite Philadelphia dominatrix is settling in for the holidays, ready to spend the Christmas and New Year’s season in beautiful Philadelphia. What have you been fantasizing about? It’s time to make it a reality, with an extra dose of holiday cheer and fear. I’m currently dreaming about a ballbusting scene with a naughty little thing, complete with a stocking full of coal.
Is your Christmas wish to be dominated by Me, your ultimate tattooed Philadelphia mistress? We can craft the perfect BDSM scene for the end of the year – maybe I should make you wear a Santa hat while I make you My bitch.
And of fun doesn’t have to be limited to just the dungeon – we can take our play out into the city. Start with dinner, a show, or out shopping, while I’m keeping you in a cycle of tease and denial. You’ll be going wild with anticipation until I decide it’s time for us to head to My dungeon and have My way with you.
It’s the perfect time to give yourself a holiday treat – the gift of a session with Me, your Mistress.
My birthday is coming up on May 7th – do you have what it takes to be My birthday bitch?
I’m opening my schedule for one special date on my birthday, to explore some sweetly sadistic fantasies that have been on my mind. I’m currently scheduled to be in Philadelphia but could be persuaded to leave it for our celebration if it’s the right Fly Me To You experience. Are you ready to serve Me on My special day?
My last Fly Me to You was an unforgettable tropical experience, and there was nothing like luxuriating on the beach and then going back to the hotel and watching My Toy suffer and enjoy under my care.
I’ll only accept the most special of scenes for My birthday – whether in Philadelphia or beyond, I’m looking for someone creative and ready to dive all in and surrender themselves to Me.
My passion is custom BDSM experiences, and there are several scenes I’ve been dreaming about, waiting for the perfect opportunity to bring them to life.
If you’re interested in serving Me on my birthday, click the link below to reach out. This is an incredibly special opportunity, and only one submissive will make the cut. Are you ready for the sensual BDSM encounter of your dreams?
If you’re not able to see Me on My birthday, check out my wishlist here to send me a gift straight to my door.
Nothing pleases Me more than bringing you into My world and leading you to embrace the journey towards becoming Mine… Wondering what a session may be like? Find out in the words of My dear toy in this testimonial:
“In this session, I could feel a change in my BDSM journey. For a while I’ve been in a place where pain was mostly the force that made me struggle against the bondage. Yesterday was the first time I’ve really embraced the pain on its own terms. You have been central in helping me find that place, first by Your gentle coaching in previous sessions about breathing and mindfulness, and then yesterday by being so tuned in and adjusting the corporal and electrical to push but not overwhelm me. That was amazing and a testament to Your skill – I was fully aware of how You deftly played with that line.
Thank You also for the wonderful rope work. I know it takes longer, but given the process and sensation of the ropes against my skin as You worked, the process was as amazing as the end result. Something about the feeling of You threading the rope around me…building the anticipation, and that little tug when You snug the rope up tight…that sent sparks in my brain. Your rope ties were everything I could have hoped for.
That said, if one of Your ideas called for breaking out the leather and the straps, I’m still game for that, because I’ve experienced what You can do there 🙂
The two gags were the most severe I’ve ever tried, but entirely worth it for the experience. The inflatable gag especially – I was not sure how I would do with that one but the way it filled my mouth, and the feeling when You gave the bulb just a bit more squeeze was all I hoped for. It feels like we have developed a rapport around gags where You know where and when to push me, and I am communicating better at when it works and when it’s too much. You have made gags such a safe and fun place to play.
It made me so pleased to hear that You had had a good time too. Being Your toy, letting You have Your way with me, taking the pain for You – those are all things I want to do for You. Pleasing You is what makes the entire session such a meaningful experience. Thank You again, for everything.”
Whenever I’m face down on the bed I’m disappointed; because I can’t see you. I’m also excited; because I can’t see what’s coming. Will it smack? Will it sting? Will it thud?
I trust your wickedness completely. You’re there 100 % of the time. I hear you purring. What are you choosing? What will bring me pain? I hope it makes you happy. I hope you’re having fun.
Spending time with you is like strolling through an art gallery. Everything you’re exposed to will last forever in your mind. It was created by someone at the top of her craft. It evokes a range of emotions, but ultimately leaves you happy.
For those of you who wish to dig deeper, I have some opportunities to serve Me in a lifestyle setting.
These opportunities are at My discretion and our connection, of course. They can go in many different directions and can occur at various lengths as I handcraft experiences tailored to what I want to do to you, My toy.
You simply need to buckle up for the ride your Mistress Victoria Cayne is ready to take you on.
I call these “MVC chooses your adventure.” you are given nothing other than a time and place, and the command to be there. You will take comfort in the fact you have no choice. All arrangements will be pre-negotiated to your limits and comfort level. Discretion is never compromised.
Creating bespoke BDSM experiences based upon your and My interests has long been a passion of mine, and one I excel greatly at. Perhaps you have been curious about going out, or having someone else join us? Or perhaps you’re an experienced enough submissive who is fully capable of complete surrender?
The most important part is that you sit back, relax and know you’re going to be Mine..
For those of you who are interested in extended lifestyle experiences, there are so many possibilities…this is not for shorter scenes. Everthing is customized by Me. They can take place inside and outside, depending on logistics.
Some examples could be:
“MVC, I am going to be in Boston for an evening. My limits are heavy pain, marks and humiliation. My interests are vast ranging from bondage to tease to cross dressing. I would really like to be pushed…”
Diving and Domination…I most recently have become an open water certified scuba diver dominatrix and love nothing more than playing a game, or “jeopardy.” Imagine a treasure hunt? I would task you with picking out dive sites which would please Me. Or you could stay at shore while I control you with one of My many remote control devices? The opportunities are endless..let’s go deep…
We go out to see The Rolling Stones, and every time “Satisfaction” is said, you have a task, a remote toy will be activated…
I do love playing in my space, but I love the dance and building the organic chemistry which unfolds over extended experiences. The luxury of time is something that only adds to our connection.
As these are very special and customized experiences, getting an invitation from Me is extremely rare and not to be taken lightly.
I do love taking My time. Do you have what it takes to be Mine?
While I do not expect or require gifts, please take note of the following if you are considering getting me something and/or wish to serve from a distance:
As I frequently travel and have limited capacity both at home and in my luggage, please do not bring me gifts in person.
Cash, or tributes on Cash App, is always the most appreciated as it contributes towards my high-quality custom gear, personal enrichment, and unplanned expenses such as car repairs or veterinary costs for my special needs dog.
That being said, I recognize some people prefer a more personalized gesture. For those, the best way to impress me is through selecting an item from my personally curated Amazon and Throne wish lists, or a gift card towards one of my favorite vendors.
If you would like to present your gift in My presence, printing out a photo of it, or presenting it to Me in another way, also is another great way to impress Me without inconveniencing me. 🙂
And if you do insist on bringing an item in person, please include a gift receipt.
I am a firm believer in “it is the thought that counts”, so please keep that in mind when getting me a gift!
Lastly, if you are unable to put your name on the gift you send me, please send me an email so I know who to thank!
The year is almost coming to an end, but not before one of My favorite months, #locktober!
For those of you not familiar with Locktober and the absolutely sinful implications behind it, it was formulated as month to celebrate #chastity, and being #locked up. It’s a time for Dominatrixes like myself and submissives such as you to revel in the joys of denial, and for me to push you to your limits of chastity. Locktober is a particular favorite of mine as a long-time chastity specialist, and it’s one of my great BDSM loves.
As much as I love being a proud #chastitykeyholder to quite a few of you, logistically that may not be possible, so I offer other alternatives, such as “mental chastity.” Since diving into the world of chastity can be an incredibly emotional and powerful experience, it is something that should not be taken lightly. If you should decide to embark on this journey with me, however, trust that you’ll be in capable and experienced hands, and that together we’ll have a Locktober you’ll never forget.
Chastity cages come in many different shapes, sizes, and materials, all of which may offer different levels of “comfort,” or lack thereof. ;).
There are so many things that please and excite Me about chastity. Everything from power exchange I get from hearing the click of the lock, to completely surrendering your keys to Me, The art of the tease I encompass to further deepen your chaste state, and denial. As I love to say, “when the simplest of touches, become the most severe.”
Enveloping and enchanting you with my mere presence, you are so close, yet so far away. Are you destined for tease or denial this time? Tease and Denial, or Edging is such a beautiful dance I confidently interlace with my dominance. Imagine yourself bound by the chains of submission, teased by the tantalizing temptress known only as MVC, your Philadelphia Dominatrix. Listening to the soft whispers of My voice, guiding you towards the desperate dance only possible under my complete control.
Securely bound and thrusting against the restrictive nature of your cage, enjoying the predicament as it squeezes you towards denial. The closing of the lock to seal your fate, only which I will control. The true power and control which I exude over you as I am now your chastity key holder, is intoxicating and invites me to tease you further.
The clinking of the keys or my nails against your cage, reminds you that your denial is even more a reality. Locked and owned, you are now in chastity for Me!
Only then will the true edging begin…
Not only do I enjoy using my body to remind you of what you cannot have, My chastity toy, I have many other methods which I love to employ…
None of which are for the faint of heart…
First of all, meet The Venus for Men, previously sold as the Venus 2000 which is a self-actuated masturbation aid for men that applies sexual stimulation using a mechanism outwardly similar to a milking machine. The machine works with or without an erection. In addition to masturbation, the machine may also be used for orgasm control practices such as edging or forced orgasm.
As if that isn’t enough, I also have The Edge-o-Matic 3000 or NoGASM, a “smarter orgasm denial device (for all humans, which also includes men and women) that uses a hollow inflatable butt plug to detect orgasm via muscle contractions in the area. As the user approaches orgasm, these involuntary contractions are recorded and measured to estimate arousal levels and control external stimuli accordingly.”
The true art of tease and denial is something I love to encapsulate my toys with as a gateway towards your deeper submission. Do you dare to join?
Read a firsthand account of what it is like being locked in Chastity for me: Here
Ready to experience the desperation like never before? Contact me to begin the journey!
