Victoria Cayne

Your Lifestyle Dominatrix

For those of you who wish to dig deeper, I have some opportunities to serve Me in a lifestyle setting.

These opportunities are at My discretion and our connection, of course. They can go in many different directions and can occur at various lengths as I handcraft experiences tailored to what I want to do to you, My toy.

You simply need to buckle up for the ride your Mistress Victoria Cayne is ready to take you on.

I call these “MVC chooses your adventure.”  you are given nothing other than a time and place, and the command to be there. You will take comfort in the fact you have no choice. All arrangements will be pre-negotiated to your limits and comfort level. Discretion is never compromised.

Creating bespoke BDSM experiences based upon your and My interests has long been a passion of mine, and one I excel greatly at. Perhaps you have been curious about going out, or having someone else join us? Or perhaps you’re an experienced enough submissive who is fully capable of complete surrender? 

The most important part is that you sit back, relax and know you’re going to be Mine..

For those of you who are interested in extended lifestyle experiences, there are so many possibilities…this is not for shorter scenes. Everthing is customized by Me. They can take place inside and outside, depending on logistics. 

Some examples could be:

“MVC, I am going to be in Boston for an evening. My limits are heavy pain, marks and humiliation.  My interests are vast ranging from bondage to tease to cross dressing.  I would really like to be pushed…”

Diving and Domination…I most recently have become an open water certified scuba diver dominatrix and love nothing more than playing a game, or “jeopardy.”  Imagine a treasure hunt? I would task you with picking out dive sites which would please Me. Or you could stay at shore while I control you with one of My many remote control devices?  The opportunities are endless..let’s go deep…

We go out to see The Rolling Stones, and every time “Satisfaction” is said, you have a task, a remote toy will be activated…

I do love playing in my space, but I love the dance and building the organic chemistry which unfolds over extended experiences. The luxury of time is something that only adds to our connection.

As these are very special and customized experiences, getting an invitation from Me is extremely rare and not to be taken lightly.

I do love taking My time.  Do you have what it takes to be Mine? 

Giving the Perfect Gift

While I do not expect or require gifts, please take note of the following if you are considering getting me something and/or wish to serve from a distance:

As I frequently travel and have limited capacity both at home and in my luggage, please do not bring me gifts in person.

Cash, or tributes on Cash App, is always the most appreciated as it contributes towards my high-quality custom gear, personal enrichment, and unplanned expenses such as car repairs or veterinary costs for my special needs dog.

That being said, I recognize some people prefer a more personalized gesture. For those, the best way to impress me is through selecting an item from my personally curated Amazon and Throne wish lists, or a gift card towards one of my favorite vendors such as Black Lotus Photography. 

If you would like to present your gift in My presence, printing out a photo of it, or presenting it to Me in another way, also is another great way to impress Me without inconveniencing me. 🙂 

And if you do insist on bringing an item in person, please include a gift receipt.

I am a firm believer in “it is the thought that counts”, so please keep that in mind when getting me a gift! 

Lastly, if you are unable to put your name on the gift you send me, please send me an email so I know who to thank!